Self Love Requires Honesty | #SLS

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I've come to realize, the hard way, that I've had and still have a lot of healing to do! Self Love is not an overnight thing *insert Percy Sledge song*. It takes time to reach a comfortable level of contentment with self. It's a journey; one of upward toil but one of positive growth. In our journey of Self Love, it is integral that we seek to know ourselves, accept who we are and live freely in our truth.  In seeking to know and embrace our truest selves, a process of self reflection and introspection helps. The trauma; experiences that we go through have fashioned us into the persons that we are today. Our personalities, our self esteem; the way we interact with others, our imposed standards, our expectations are all influenced by the way we see ourselves; by the way we think and feel about ourselves. It's 'human nature' to first be negative before positive and unappreciative before we see good, so in order to change our thinki...
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Be The Chase

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Sooo... I've been overworked.

Have you ever been the driving force of a relationship? Have you been the one making the calls, setting the dates, sending the texts, posting the pics, starting the conversation, finding the time? Have you? Well Bih! My Creole! - You're pretty much ready to propose to yourself! Well... maybe not but dame! If that's you, then I bet you're probably as tired as I am.

I'm sure you're super-duper-committed, with ride/die qualities and you're probably the one who'd fall head-over-heals in love and be willing to jump in St.Lucia's Soufriere - no questions asked - for the one you love. Any Love Doctor would say that that's a combination of sweet and messed up - border-line psychotic! So don't do that. ✋🏾But yeah... I know you. I feel you. We're probably Soul-Ties. We should meet up shouldn't we? Anyway...

This year I've made a personal pledge (well it's not so personal now) to be the chase; to not fall aimlessly; to allow those who want in on my life to be their genuine selves; to allow them to prove their words... prove their heart's in the right place... 😌


What I've Learned Thus Far:

 • Some people these days don't like working as hard and they should to get what they want. They give up easily and move on. To a point, I'm glad about that. I prefer moving on with life over sticking with the superfluous.

 • Others feel like 'putting in the work' is limited to an occasional "sup wyd?" and that's unfortunate.

 • I'm quite the traditional when it comes to guys... I feel like if they're interested in the real you - the long term - then they should be willing to invest. Time, Ideas, Conversations, Plans - all - these - just - make - me... Mmmhmm I love it, I'm for it, I'm there and I'm on time! When it comes to girls... well.. Amma leave that for another post.

 • A lot of guys don't think that they should do the whole 'buy her a gift, bring her flowers, take her on a date, open her door, make her feel special' thing! The same are not creative and are quite ok with Netflix & Chill for every meet up! Aarrrghhh I'm over it!

 • If you're like me, full of love to give and eager to give it then It's easy to give up on your personal pledges and ish... But Nahhh. I won't. And Amma save me a lot of heartache, a lot of time and a lot of dollars.

 • We must ensure that we understand our true selves and come to terms with what we want in life and love. Happiness must be had in singledom. Make yourself happy now! For You... and your future Beau or Belle.


 I love You. Be You & Love You Too!  🦋
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